Enneagram of Personality Typing Sessions

Here’s what they really think: that you deserve a one-size-fits-all solution to what’s stopping the limitless you. They really believe that they don’t need to know you — and YOU don’t need to know YOU — to level up.

You’re here because we both know that’s insane.

Any effective approach to growth, life change, and sustainability must take into account that there are DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE… and that means there is you.

Yes, you with the bells and whistles. You when you’re stressed and you when you’re not. You when you’re fighting for your life or just veggin’ out watching The Office. You who can’t set or keep boundaries, or you who puts them up like they will protect you from the plague.

Sure, I could pretend these differences don’t exist and don’t matter. But I’d have to ignore the questions I’ve answered throughout my career as a coach:

• Why am I like this?

• Why do I keep finding myself in this situation?

• Is this all? Is there more out there for me?

• Who am I? What kind of life are they supposed to live?

• What do I really want?

• How do I stop showing up empty?

• How do I finally take charge of my life? I’m sick of missing out on it.

What used to be a 1-option 90-minute typing session is now THREE options to best fit what you need and help you understand the language behind who, what, and why you are so you can stop showing up empty and live your life, as yourself.

 
 
 
 
 
 

WHAT CAN YOU LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF?

 

  • Learn about your enneagram type, the overview, key traits, stories, anecdotes, characteristics, and clinical information about your specific enneagram type

  • Learn about the core fears of your enneagram type, the place your type suffers throughout their lives, key beliefs and assumptions that keep their passions afloat, worldview, and mental habits and fixations

  • Learn about triggers and where you go to in moments of stress, healthy bliss, and everything in between.

  • Learn about the “fatal flaw” of your enneagram type, the vices and defense mechanisms we come up against, the 3 biological instincts we gravitate toward within personality, where we borrow inspiration (wings), and your center of intelligence - your main operating and receiving system for your being.

  • Learn about the different styles and stances your type takes — relational styles, interpersonal coping styles, and conflict styles.

  • WHO PART 2! Learn about your types virtues that you can grow to from vices, the psychological ego structure of each type, the different levels of healthy, autopilot, or mayday-style behaviors, and your super power.

 
 
 

TYPING SESSIONS ARE FOR YOU IF:

• You don’t know your enneagram type and what it encompasses: your worldview, relational styles, strengths, key traits, etc.

• You already know your enneagram type, but have never worked with a coach to go through what about your type aligns with your life, as well as wings, subtypes, etc.

• You feel like there might be something standing in the way, and you have a feeling that something might be you… you just don’t know why.

• You are going through the motions are it is eating away at you.

• You’re looking to understand why you do what you do, how it’s impacting your world and relationships, and grow in an individualized way.

• You believe you are limitless and there’s a next level you can reach in your personal, romantic, relational, and career-related worlds… you just don’t know what.

• You keep running into more of the same: the same habits, “relationships”, the same high-highs and low lows, with no explanation.

• You keep falling and you are determined to catch where you’re slipping.

• You want to foster understanding amongst your world and understand the motives of others — starting with understanding and embracing yourself.

• You’re sick of asking the questions like, “is this it? is there more for me?” and not getting answers.

• You want to stop feeling lost and start feeling “right here” again.

 

WHY SHOULD I LEARN MY ENNEAGRAM TYPE WITH A COACH?

• THE BEST ONLINE TESTS ARE CAN ONLY BE SO ACCURATE AND MEASURE SO MUCH

Tests are not the best way to find out your type! While they can narrow down the results, it cannot measure your internal world — the purpose of the Enneagram. Many mistypes happen this way (that happened to me! TWICE!). Online tests shine a light on part of the story, but it will tell you nothing about YOUR story. A coach helps you make it yours.

• SELF TYPING CAN BE RISKY BECAUSE OF LOOK-ALIKES, COUNTER-TYPES, CULTURAL DIFFERENCES, OR UNDERLYING ISSUES

Did you know that diagnoses like obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, and more can actually make people look like specific enneagram types because of external behaviors? We don’t type on behaviors, but we don’t self-type either because… it’s too tricky. Someone who isn’t living in your world needs to cut through the noise — whether there is an underlying issue, a type-look-alike, or a possibly mistype because of a nuanced biological instinctual variant — self typing is not the vibe.

• THE COMPUTER DOESN’T CARE TO KNOW WHY

I doubt your computer has ever asked you why… why your voice cracked when you answered that way, why your body language shifted when you heard the question in full for the first time… There is no one across from you to clarify the small individualities that come up when measuring the motivations of your internal world. Sometimes to really unlock change, we just need to be asked the right questions.

 
 
 
 

What to expect in a Typing Session with Jackie Contessa:

Jackie Contessa is a Certified Life Coach and Certified Enneagram Coach

  • Typing Sessions vary in length based on the tier you choose.

    Tier 1’s typing sessions are currently 45 minutes.

    Tier 2’s typing sessions are 2-hours (a one-time, 2-hour session)

    Tier 3’s typing sessions are 4-5 hours, and at times can go up to 6 hours. This tier can be broken down into 2 sessions or be done in one day with a break.

  • NO PREP NEEDED! No, it’s not too good to be true! All you need to do to prepare is understand what your goal is: what do you want to accomplish in our time together?

    You can also prepare by preparing your space: a quiet, comfortable place to sit and talk, a pair of headphones, comfortable clothes, etc. Prep yourself for comfort and openness.

  • During our time together, Jackie will share the more important parts of what makes you, you, prioritizing what to share by the goals you will have discussed before meeting. Your job during? Remain comfortable and open, ask questions, and just be there!

    (You will receive the video and audio recording of our session, no matter the length. Feel free to just be present and save the “learning” for when you listen back)

  • Jackie will ask you a series of questions that help her understand certain relational styles, operating systems, and clarifying the nuances to help clear the path and narrow down to your type.

    When she has narrowed one down, you two will go over the description and overview, and make sure it fits you before proceeding.

    If you feel good about the description of your type, we will more forward to all the nuances, ins and outs, and the little here’s-and-there’s.

  • After our session, you will receive the video and audio recordings of our time together and an individualized to-go packet that is all about you and what we discussed in our session.

    As you would have come to our meeting with a “goal” or understanding of what you want to leave with, I am committed to having you leave with what is at least the next steps in what you need to do to inch toward your goal.

    For some, that may be continued month-to-month work together. For some, all they needed was the missing piece of their enneagram type. Everyone’s different, but I’m committed to making sure that you close your loop.

 
 
 
 

HEY YOU, WHAT’S YOUR TYPE?

Tier 1

Length: 45 minutes

Investment: $220

Learn about the basics of your type, your wings, subtype, levels of health, and understand basic points of growth in a personalized way.

This introductory session can discounted for students, teachers, and mental health professionals with school or work ID/badge for $120

Tier 2

Length: 120 minutes (2 hours)

Investment: $397

Everything in the Basic package, PLUS a deep dive into your core motivations, an introduction to your internal operating system, overview of psychological ego-structure, deep dive into passions, fixations, and mental habits and worldview, levels of health that are wing-specific and growth points that are subtype-specific.

This high-ROI session is also a gift-back session: for every Revolutionary typing session booked, an identical session is gifted to a single mom on the waitlist free of charge, every time.

Tier 3

Length: 4-5 hours

Investment: $880

Everything in the Revolutionary package, PLUS an in-depth look into your center of intelligence (uses, misuses, and relating to your operating system), relational, conflict, and interpersonal coping styles, vice-to-virtue journey, a full scope of what “doing the work” as your type, and a full work-up of integration, disintegration, conversion, and every other enneagram type yours relates to.

This is an everything session.

 
 

Wanna together some more? ME TOO.

EVERYONE HAS 9 DAYS TO ROLL THE TYPING SESSION OF THEIR CHOICE INTO THE 3-MONTH BOOTCAMP

(+1 FREE SESSION!)

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

I can't balance perfection with self-compassion

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I can't prioritize myself without the guilt

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Sometimes on the way to winning I forget who I am

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I feel like my value gets drowned in the ordinary

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I can't pull myself away from the small details

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I'm missing the world, life, and people around me because I don't know what to trust

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I don't know where to run to escape from myself

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I don't know how to balance power and openness

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I feel like my sense of drive exists for others

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I can't balance perfection with self-compassion • I can't prioritize myself without the guilt • Sometimes on the way to winning I forget who I am • I feel like my value gets drowned in the ordinary • I can't pull myself away from the small details • I'm missing the world, life, and people around me because I don't know what to trust • I don't know where to run to escape from myself • I don't know how to balance power and openness • I feel like my sense of drive exists for others •

 
 

FAQ

  • NO PREP NEEDED! No, it’s not too good to be true! Please do not take an online test if you haven’t already. You can read up if you’d like but it’s not necessary. I’d recommend coming open and empty and reading up later.

    All you need to do to prepare is understand what your goal is: what do you want to accomplish in our time together?

    You can also prepare by preparing your space: a quiet, comfortable place to sit and talk, a pair of headphones, comfortable clothes, etc. Prep yourself for comfort and openness.

  • Free, online tests are only one small part of THE story… but that doesn’t mean it tells us anything about YOUR story. Tests and one-size-fits all online explanations have their own purposes, but they come second to working with a coach. Value and cost are two different things. While the cost of an online test may be free, working with a coach for your typing session is invaluable to your longterm growth.

  • As you would have come to our meeting with a “goal” or understanding of what you want to leave with, I am committed to having you leave with what is at least the next steps in what you need to do to inch toward your goal.

    For some, that may be continued month-to-month work together. For some, all they needed was the missing piece of their enneagram type. Everyone’s different, but I’m committed to making sure that you close your loop.

  • While it is possible for coaches to mistype someone, that has not happened in my experience as a coach. I solely attribute this to making my clients part of the process and not relying on an online test to measure the person in front of me. Hand in hand, we can nail it down together. No doubt about it.

    Here’s my big, fat, HOWEVER: sometimes, types can align with people for months, even years. If time has gone on and you feel as though we have gotten it wrong wrong wrong and you’d like a revisit, please email hello@tablefor9coaching.com and Christie will make sure you get in front of my face ASAP!